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For those who want it, here's an alternate version of the sex meme, hopefully more interesting and free of damaging assumptions. Co-written by me, ![[insanejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/ij-userinfo.gif)
lunapome (LJ), laylah, ratzeo, puella_nerdii, and mahokiwi.
Please share as you see fit. If there are any glaring errors or problems, feel free to comment and I'll fix them.
Enjoy!
1. How do you define the act of sex for yourself? Use this definition to answer the following questions.
2. Are you comfortable talking about sex with casual acquaintances, or only trusted friends? What makes you comfortable enough to talk about your sex life?
3. How would you describe your sexual identity? Has it changed over time? You may find it helpful to refer to the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid.
4. Do you masturbate? Why or why not?
5. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same sex? Of a different sex than your own?
6. What are your criteria for a sexual partner?
7. How do you establish boundaries of trust/comfort/respect regarding sex?
8. Do you enjoy sex outside of established relationships? What about it is/is not appealing to you? If yes, where do you find your partners?
9. Do you enjoy sex with more than one person at a time? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
10. Do you enjoy sex toys? If yes, what toys do you have?
11. What are three of your favorite sexual acts, positions, kinks, or toys during sex with partners?
12. Same question, but during sex by yourself?
13. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
14. What is your favorite body part to lavish attention on, on a partner? Why?
15. What is your favorite body part of your own to have attention lavished upon? Why?
16. Do you prefer to fantasize during sex, or do you prefer to focus your attention on what's going on in the moment?
17. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?
18. Does location affect how much you enjoy sex? Where is your favorite location to have sex?
19. Where is the most unconventional place you have had sex?
20. Do you watch/read pornography? If so, do you prefer watching or reading?
21. What do you like best about pornography? What do you dislike the most?
22. Do you enjoy taking off clothing and/or being sexual for money? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
23. Do you enjoy sex in the shower or the bath? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
24. Have you ever been caught having sex?
25. Do you enjoy going to strip clubs? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
26. Do you enjoy being photographed or videotaped in sexual situations? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
27. Do you enjoy phonesex? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
28. Do you enjoy cybersex? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
29. Share your favorite embarrassing sex story about yourself.
30. What is something you'd like to try but haven't gotten to yet? A sexual position, a kink, a sex toy? What intrigues you about it?
31. If you could bend the laws of reality, what currently impossible sex act would you like to try?
lunapome (LJ), laylah, ratzeo, puella_nerdii, and mahokiwi.Please share as you see fit. If there are any glaring errors or problems, feel free to comment and I'll fix them.
Enjoy!
1. How do you define the act of sex for yourself? Use this definition to answer the following questions.
2. Are you comfortable talking about sex with casual acquaintances, or only trusted friends? What makes you comfortable enough to talk about your sex life?
3. How would you describe your sexual identity? Has it changed over time? You may find it helpful to refer to the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid.
4. Do you masturbate? Why or why not?
5. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same sex? Of a different sex than your own?
6. What are your criteria for a sexual partner?
7. How do you establish boundaries of trust/comfort/respect regarding sex?
8. Do you enjoy sex outside of established relationships? What about it is/is not appealing to you? If yes, where do you find your partners?
9. Do you enjoy sex with more than one person at a time? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
10. Do you enjoy sex toys? If yes, what toys do you have?
11. What are three of your favorite sexual acts, positions, kinks, or toys during sex with partners?
12. Same question, but during sex by yourself?
13. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
14. What is your favorite body part to lavish attention on, on a partner? Why?
15. What is your favorite body part of your own to have attention lavished upon? Why?
16. Do you prefer to fantasize during sex, or do you prefer to focus your attention on what's going on in the moment?
17. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?
18. Does location affect how much you enjoy sex? Where is your favorite location to have sex?
19. Where is the most unconventional place you have had sex?
20. Do you watch/read pornography? If so, do you prefer watching or reading?
21. What do you like best about pornography? What do you dislike the most?
22. Do you enjoy taking off clothing and/or being sexual for money? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
23. Do you enjoy sex in the shower or the bath? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
24. Have you ever been caught having sex?
25. Do you enjoy going to strip clubs? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
26. Do you enjoy being photographed or videotaped in sexual situations? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
27. Do you enjoy phonesex? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
28. Do you enjoy cybersex? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
29. Share your favorite embarrassing sex story about yourself.
30. What is something you'd like to try but haven't gotten to yet? A sexual position, a kink, a sex toy? What intrigues you about it?
31. If you could bend the laws of reality, what currently impossible sex act would you like to try?
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I did include two edits in one last version (http://sigelphoenix.insanejournal.com/161351.html), if you decide to fill it out.