Version 2.1 of the sex meme

[sigelphoenix]

I think this will be the last version. XD Maybe if other people find places for improvement, we can even get a whole new, different meme?

The list of contributors is: me, lunapome (LJ), laylah, ratzeo, puella_nerdii, mahokiwi, niwatorimegami (LJ), and das_dingsi. In this version, the latest modifications are in bold.

Edit: Please note that this new version is an attempt to fix the problems of the original meme. However, I cannot claim that I have made a perfect solution. Please feel free to contribute suggestions and share criticisms here, or to simply change the meme when you use it. Also, I hope this can be used as a springboard for new, more improved versions. Please refer to this post for a more thorough discussion.

1. How do you define the act of sex for yourself? Use this definition to answer the following questions.
2. Are you comfortable talking about sex with casual acquaintances, or only trusted friends? What makes you comfortable enough to talk about your sex life?
3. How would you describe your sexual identity? Has it changed over time? You may find it helpful to refer to the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid.
4. Do you masturbate? Why or why not?
5. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same sex? Of a different sex than your own?
6. What are your criteria for a sexual partner?
7. How do you establish boundaries of trust/comfort/respect regarding sex?
8. Do you enjoy sex outside of established relationships? What about it is/is not appealing to you? If yes, where do you find your partners?
9. Do you enjoy sex with more than one person at a time? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
10. Do you enjoy sex toys? If yes, what toys do you have?
11. What are three of your favorite sexual acts, positions, kinks, or toys during sex with partners?
12. Same question, but during sex by yourself?
13. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
14. What is your favorite body part to lavish attention on, on a partner? Why?
15. What is your favorite body part of your own to have attention lavished upon? Why?
16. Do you prefer to fantasize during sex, or do you prefer to focus your attention on what's going on in the moment?
17. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?
18. Does location affect how much you enjoy sex? Where is your favorite location to have sex?
19. Where is the most unconventional place you have had sex?
20. Do you watch/read pornography? If so, do you prefer watching or reading?
21. What do you like best about pornography? What do you dislike the most?
22. Do you enjoy taking off clothing and/or being sexual for money? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
23. Do you enjoy sex in the shower or the bath? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
24. Do you enjoy the idea of being seen or caught having sex? Why or why not? Has this ever happened to you, whether or not it was intentional on your part?
25. Do you enjoy going to strip clubs? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
26. Do you enjoy being photographed or videotaped in sexual situations? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
27. Do you enjoy phonesex? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
28. Do you enjoy cybersex? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
29. Do you enjoy going to sex stores? If you haven't tried it, would you like to? Explain why, or why not.
30. Share your favorite embarrassing sex story about yourself.
31. What is something you'd like to try but haven't gotten to yet? A sexual position, a kink, a sex toy? What intrigues you about it?
32. If you could bend the laws of reality, what currently impossible sex act would you like to try?